is what I’d have liked to see appearing next to your flight’s name this morning, as selfish as this sounds, so we’d have more of whatever little time left that’s slipping away into the cocoon of the past. Tears were shed as we sat facing the glass wall, heads leaning, and we tried desperately to freeze the present and not leap into the future where all is uncertain and unknown. But our final goodbyes have to be said as we hugged tightly as if we could stop the dreaded eventuality from occurring. And then you went past passport control and airport security, as I stalked your being from above until we waved and mouthed our actual final goodbyes and those three words, separated by a noise-proof glass.
And so another year of waiting begins, perhaps until Japan of 2011.
In: General|Laos|Travelogue
4 Jul 2010 10:04 pmHow do you seize a moment so perfect? Swinging lazily on a blue hammock in a shady hut with a couple of friends on a Saturday afternoon in Laos, talking about life, laughing and joking, overlooking the Nam Song (Song River) with passing kayakers and travellers in a tube and browned Laotian kids chasing after them, and limestone mountains that encircle us, forming a perimeter of svelte green. And the way the sunlight hits the river making it sparkle, filling its watery womb with a blinding flash that it hurts to almost look at it. And the insects whose names I know not of cooing and chirping in the background, and some Glee songs and other radio-friendly hits playing from Jeremy’s phone. And our antidote to the heat, the breeze gently swaying and caressing our skin.
If only I could capture this moment and put it in a capsule, I’d replay it in the future when the need to unwind or a desire to escape from real life surfaces. But even though memories do decay and become tainted from its after-effects, the words I’d recount may begin, “It was a lazy Saturday afternoon in Vang Vieng…”.
In: General
21 Jun 2010 10:30 pmMore than a month now since I last blogged—a possible travesty considering a wealth of photos and entries documenting my daily life in this almost public journal of the trips I’ve been to, or my ramblings and soliloquies of love found and discovered, have not been published. To be honest, while I don’t feel an enormous pit of sorrow welling up inside me, I do regret the fact that I didn’t write as much, as it has been my passion.
Right now I will not talk about the Cameron Highlands trip that I’ve been to that ended in considerable disaster in the form of a non-functioning car that required thousands of ringgit to repair, or the foresty stay at Sekeping Serendah, or to Genting with Esther and Tony, or to the countless of Meeples sessions with my friends (mostly with Jerm, PY, and co. who were there nearly all the time), or the RoM with Tomoko and Ben and the after party, or the movies and dinners and co-operative gaming sessions with you.
Instead, I will talk about the upcoming Laos trip and how it both excites me and depresses me at the same time, as it signifies that your time here with me is drawing to an end. I remembered how excitingly agitated I became the night before your arrival, and now, I might be agitated again for all the wrong reasons.
Spending every waking hour with someone you love, while it’s the best possible thing to have happened to anyone, could turn into an emotional rollercoaster when this hazy, mystical summer draws to an end. You spend what seemed like an entire lifetime learning about your partner’s little quirky habits, like how you’ll use a fork while eating as opposed to a spoon, only to be torn away for another good year or so while your physical presence is spirited away.
But if we’ve done a whole year of non-physical communication before, surely we can do this again.
Next stop: Laos. In 3 days time now.
Day 5 – Friday, 20th November 2009
I woke up at 5 in the morning, and noticed that Jeremy wasn’t in his bed. But after I showered and ate my breakfast and I re-entered our dorm room at about 6am, he was already in bed. He noticed me despite my best at trying to keep all noise levels at a minimum (which is a caveat of sorts of staying in a dorm I suppose), and he told me, “Good luck in your travels buddy.”
While I was eating breakfast earlier, a bunch of drunk British (nearly 10 of ‘em) were gathered in the lounge by the fireplace, one of them playing the guitar to the song that contained the lyrics of “if you know my name” which attracted me like bee to honey to them and sat near them, before one of them asked me to join them and chatted with me for a bit.
Then I set off to the i-SITE (the Clocktower building) to wait for the 6.50am Milford Sound Select/nakedbus bus, where on the way I encountered some police barriers blocking off my path near a shop with some broken glass (I read in the papers some days later that someone was killed in a drunken brawl wtf).
#1 Waiting for the bus.
#2 …and it turns out to be an amazingly luxurious couch with panoramic windows and glass ceilings that allow fantastic access to the breathtaking views around us, which trumps all the other buses I’ve ever sat in South-East Asia—yes, even Malaysia. I managed to book very early for this bus, and got the singular cheapest seat available which was around NZD$86 or something.
Initially I thought it was only going to be just the three of us (who were picked up there—it arrives on the dot, so it didn’t bother to wait more than a minute or two before leaving). I talked briefly to the couple in front of me, who were sitting two rows away from me and were at the most front seats (though I talked to the guy only really), and he said that he’s from Auckland, and was also studying Economics & Finance too (or rather, business).
Read the rest of this entry »My trip to Kuala Selangor began with Siew picking me up at nearly 6pm sharp, who already had May Peng in the car. We then picked up Tomoko and Ben (who were all like “I’m so glad you’re here Clem, so we don’t need to share seats with Gopi” hahaha) and headed towards Jerm’s place, but when we discovered that he had only reached SS19 then, we then decided to go to Taipan as Siew wanted to withdraw some money while Tom and Ben wanted to get some drinks.
And then as we were heading back towards Jerm’s place, Poh Yuen contacted us (or the other way round, I can’t remember) and May Peng then asked her to pick up Gopi. Well long story short after much waiting (as Gopi accidentally took his mum’s car keys and had to return them), we finally departed from Subang at around 6.45pm-ish, got stuck at the Summit traffic jam while Ben and Tom played around with a laser light against PY’s car, finally got on the highway, got stuck somewhere in a traffic jam near Sungai Buloh, lost each other (our car decided to drop by at a Shell station to use its loos) and then met up at KFC before we finally departed.
It was raining a little at the time, and our journey was further interrupted when the car in front slammed his brakes all of a sudden, forcing Siew to do the same (we heard an extremely loud screech) and we managed to brake in time.
But not before the car behind us slammed into our car which caused us to knock the car in front of us a little, resulting in

Not fun.
Further mind-boggling ensues when a few random strangers decided to hop onto the scene with walkie-talkies possibly trying to profit on the situation. Fortunately PY and co must’ve reversed and stopped right in front of Siew’s car where we acquired more ammunition in the form of numbers—the dude who rammed into us has a grand total of 1 person (himself) in terms of support.
The Malay dude whose car was knocked into by us quickly left the scene, and later on we discovered that Ben’s iPhone was missing and we suspected that the Malay dude could’ve taken it, or someone else. We practically turned the car inside out but we still could not locate Ben’s phone, and this problem was further compounded by the fact that his phone was on Vibrate, and hence rendered our search even more impossible.
As for Siew’s car, in the end we negotiated for RM500 since the damage was pretty bad, and we even had to rip off the entire bumper as it was hanging loose and would scrape against the tyres or brush against a motorcycle that wanders too near.

We eventually got into a seafood restaurant, where Ben was apparently allergic to shellfish and so couldn’t take prawns or crabs.
So, after four whole months of abandoning my New Zealand posts mid-way, I’m taking steps to rectify this. Opening that little black journal made me dive into my memories again, seeing the emotions eloping through the carefully written words that I’ve written mostly before I went to sleep on a particular day. It’s been wild.
Day 4 – Thursday, 19th November 2009
#1 I woke up at 8 without any alarm clock, went to get the free bread in the kitchen for breakfast (or at least, I think they’re free and not someone else’s…), then chillaxed at this cool, contemporary-looking lounge that’s just next to the kitchen and the dining area.
#2 Modern and large kitchen—possibly the largest I’ve ever seen of all the guesthouses I’ve stayed in NZ, and that’s probably because Nomads Queenstown is huge as well and could possibly keep like hundreds of visitors at a time.
Tomoko, Jeremy, and Siew Kiat invited me to join them at a European board game cafe called Meeples last Thursday night, and so intrigued I was at the idea (notwithstanding the fact that I have an Organisational Behaviour final exam the following week) that I decided to participate.
And it was a pretty awesome decision, as you can see from the pictures I took on Friday night:

The quaint little place located on top of Face-to-Face SS15.

Playing the funky European strategy board game called “Smallworld”.

Jeremy reading the rule sheet with Amanda (one of the staff) helping us to sort out the pieces and explain the rules (which is really what their task entails!).

Jin was there too briefly, although he didn’t get to play as we were in the middle of a game.

One of my favourite games, Dixit, as it’s pretty simple too play and merely requires your imagination.
Meeples is possibly one of the most original ideas for a business, at least in Malaysia. Their vast array of European board games is definitely staggering (they even have World of Warcraft and Starcraft board games), and I think in the three consecutive nights that I was there (on Saturday night, I was with Poh Yuen, Tomoko and Jeremy), we only played like four different games. “Bang!” was also a pretty fun game (ala Murder in the Dark, but done and improved further with cards), and I had even contemplated purchasing either that or Dixit, which isn’t exactly cheap (around the range of RM150 and above).
At the moment, Meeples (the name possibly derived from their flagship board game, whose name escaped me now) has a launch promotion whereby purchasing an hour nets you an extra free hour. RM5 for two hours sounds pretty reasonable, but I doubt I’d be going as often as I did before when it reverts to the original RM5/hour.
Can’t wait to hang out there with the extended family and Matt in less than 2 weeks time. =D
In: General
28 Apr 2010 3:48 pmMy finals begin tomorrow.
I haven’t had the spirit to blog lately ever since my PS3 came into my life and I found myself trying to obtain trophy after trophy, never mind the fact that trophies are bragging rights that are essentially worthless.
This final semester of mine can be summed up in several phrases: degenerating college caused by integrative changes made by our new management that caused much uproar among students and lecturers alike; only 3 subjects this semester; the misfortune that I (or rather my Organisational Behaviour teammates and I) had of having the worst teammate that could’ve ever existed by turning into an uncontactable hermit by not picking up our phone calls, not responding to our SMSes, not replying to our e-mails, and not turning up for meetings immediately after our mid-semester break.
And even on the day we were passing up our group assignment, Mr. Uncontactable Hermit did not appear and so we had to pass up our assignment without his student number or his signature which was required. But no worries, as we’ve lodged a complaint against him to our lecturer and she promised to file a report to RMIT Melbourne to ensure equitable justice to our group.
Tomorrow marks my first final paper, that would mark the start of my week of exams—three papers stretched across four weeks, as opposed to my horrible experience in Melbourne that a student should never have to experience, when I had three intensely difficult papers in two days. I partially blame that atrocious scheduling for my less-than-satisfactory grades I acquired.
So after delaying my New Zealand travel posts indefinitely, I think it’s about time that I seize my journal once more (not a Moleskin, but an AUD$10 book with empty lined pages that I purchased at Borders after watching a free movie in the suburbs of Melbourne) and actually write about it. I took a peek at my Kiwi pictures a few minutes ago, and the first picture (that would’ve come after the last Day 3 entry I wrote) made my heart skip a beat and I caught my breath. I forgot the adrenaline, excitement, and the euphoria assaulting me on a daily basis whilst backpacking alone (mangled with the occasional depression) for the first time in my life, and it struck me.. how these feelings washed away just as quick. And just how pristine and beautiful New Zealand’s South Island is.
Pics would come soon, I swear, to those who are still reading this blog. In exactly two posts from now.
In: General
25 Apr 2010 6:46 pmLast Saturday’s Video Games Live has been an anchor of ecstasy and of much musical orgasm to Malaysian video game enthusiasts. I booked the tickets nearly a month in advance—for me, Jon, Ee Leen, Wai Hong, my bro, Chris—the very day I discovered that the tickets have actually gone live, and quickly snapped up the seats. Veritably some of the best ones were taken, but nevertheless we took the 2nd cheapest tickets (RM103) and they were surprisingly good, as we could see the stage quite clearly.

Our tickets.
In: Brunei|Travelogue
14 Apr 2010 9:30 pmDay 4 – Wednesday, 13th January 2010
It began to rain in the wee hours of the morning, and part of my sub-consciousness must’ve heard the rain battering our roof and everything around us that I began to feel even lazier and ignored my alarm. Not to mention that I slept a little late having played Dragon Age again the night before, and when Des entered my room only to find that I was asleep, he urged me to wake up and I told him that I didn’t feel like going to Ulu Temburong anymore, especially since it was raining.
He didn’t buy that however, and after more egging on his part, I begrudgingly got up and showered, and then Desmond’s dad sent us (including Pei Yi who went to Desmond’s place that morning) to the jetty, where we took the boat to Ulu Temburong National Park.
#1 Desmond talking on the phone while in the boat.

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